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onsdag 7 oktober 2009

Dating A Very Good Looking Person And Trying Not To Be Insecure

By Astrid Engels

I'd bet my bottom dollar that Brangelina doesn't have this problem! Let's face it, both Angelina and Brad are exceptionally good looking people. They have the votes from magazines and gossip websites around the world to prove it.

Both of these beautiful people wouldn't be found on an internet dating site if they were single! They'd have potential dates lining up around the block; such is the life of a beautiful celebrity.

It's only natural that two good looking people will grab people's attention. But what about when you're the one who is dating a really good looking companion? Would you be able to handle it? If it's happened to you already, did it go well?

I'm an average looking gal. My friends describe me as "cute in a girl next door kinda way". And most of the men I've dated are average looking as well, with one exception. This guy was so good looking I sometimes wondered what the heck he was doing with me! Women and men both drooled over this guy's appearance.

But when we were out together, people looked at him, not at me. It wasn't something I was used to. We didn't date for long and although I was sad when we broke up, I was happy the relationship was over. I was simply too insecure to date someone better looking than myself.

Now what he looked like should really not have mattered. He was simply a person looking for love and he actually liked me for who I was. Clearly, he found me attractive however, the problem was not him. It was me. I had fantasized about the guy with the movie star looks as a teen, but when it became a reality I had no idea what to do with him. It is as though, I could not relax and just enjoy the moment. He was fun to be with and loved to play practical jokes, but somehow the looks were an issue.

As I have grown older, I realize how silly I was then and that looks don't really matter. It is the first thing that we see when meeting someone but once you talk the personality and things you have in common are going to be the things that take you to the next level.

I am happy to say that I have gotten another chance. The guy I am seeing now is even more handsome than the one before. This time, when we walk down the street holding hands and the girls swoon, I smile and think about how handsome he is inside and out. There is nothing wrong with dating someone extremely good-looking, but you just have to make sure you are secure.

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