Anyone who has children will at some point need to take some advice about an aspect of raising their child. It can be very hard at times knowing what to do for the best in some situations and some people need parenting tips whether advice taken from friends and family or via informative articles.
For those with toddlers, the main problems occur with toddler tantrums, health issues, child's development and social factors. Temper tantrums can be dealt with by diffusing the tantrum before it properly begins. Distract the child by asking them a question or by showing them something to take their focus off of the issue that has made them cross.
When it comes to a child being clingy with its parent in a social situation you need to handle the situation carefully as your methods may cause the child to become much more anxious.
This needs careful handling as you do not want to cause the child more anxiety than they are already experiencing and the method of leaving and not telling them you are going is not recommended as they will get severe anxiety separation thinking you will do this every time they go off to play.
with older children that will not behave, talking to them about their behaviour and making them aware of what they did wrong is important. Also approaching this calmly will help to not inflame the situation and to resolve the problems sooner rather than later and hopefully without them repeating the behaviour again.
So in this instance a punishment of sorts can be issued to make them realise the implications that will occur if they misbehave. Things like taking away their favourite toy or game for a period of a day can work, as can the age old method of grounding. That is not letting them out to play with their friends as punishment.
it is very normal for your child to want to do whatever their friends are doing. You may feel that they are too young to be doing those things, such as unescorted trips to the cinema for example.
outright refusal of letting do things with their friends will result in some very unpleasant arguments, so try compromising. Suggest things such as offering lifts to places rather than walking, so they get they there safely and are still allowed to see their friends. They will not miss out and you get some peace of mind.
children as young as four or five want to assert their Independence by saying they want to do things without you and may ask you to leave once you have dropped them at a party or friends house! Whilst this is clearly too young for them to have a lot of Independence, letting them develop Independence is a crucial part of growing up. Let them do things for themselves, such as making their bed or clearing the dinner table will help them.
For those with toddlers, the main problems occur with toddler tantrums, health issues, child's development and social factors. Temper tantrums can be dealt with by diffusing the tantrum before it properly begins. Distract the child by asking them a question or by showing them something to take their focus off of the issue that has made them cross.
When it comes to a child being clingy with its parent in a social situation you need to handle the situation carefully as your methods may cause the child to become much more anxious.
This needs careful handling as you do not want to cause the child more anxiety than they are already experiencing and the method of leaving and not telling them you are going is not recommended as they will get severe anxiety separation thinking you will do this every time they go off to play.
with older children that will not behave, talking to them about their behaviour and making them aware of what they did wrong is important. Also approaching this calmly will help to not inflame the situation and to resolve the problems sooner rather than later and hopefully without them repeating the behaviour again.
So in this instance a punishment of sorts can be issued to make them realise the implications that will occur if they misbehave. Things like taking away their favourite toy or game for a period of a day can work, as can the age old method of grounding. That is not letting them out to play with their friends as punishment.
it is very normal for your child to want to do whatever their friends are doing. You may feel that they are too young to be doing those things, such as unescorted trips to the cinema for example.
outright refusal of letting do things with their friends will result in some very unpleasant arguments, so try compromising. Suggest things such as offering lifts to places rather than walking, so they get they there safely and are still allowed to see their friends. They will not miss out and you get some peace of mind.
children as young as four or five want to assert their Independence by saying they want to do things without you and may ask you to leave once you have dropped them at a party or friends house! Whilst this is clearly too young for them to have a lot of Independence, letting them develop Independence is a crucial part of growing up. Let them do things for themselves, such as making their bed or clearing the dinner table will help them.
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